Mr. J.C. Sanders has posted a reply to my take on the doctrine of Mary’s perpetual virginity. Since we’ve taken up this topic, I’ll leave him with the last word on the saints for this round.
First, I agree with my friend that for the average Protestant who doesn’t believe in this doctrine (and may have never heard of it), it matters little if Catholics believe in it, and going out of one’s way to pick a fight on the subject is bad form. However, for those Protestants like myself that find ourselves in continual engagement with Catholicism, and therefor having to regularly explain and defend our Protestantism, the doctrine matters a great deal, since evaluating it is part of judging the unique claims of the Catholic church. It is not the only such doctrine, the other Marian doctrines and the doctrine of transubstantiation are examples of other sticking points, but it is certainly an important one.
Since one cannot be a Catholic in good standing without accepting this doctrine, one must either be convinced of its truth, or convinced that the teacher authority of the Catholic church is infallible. Debate about the latter is likely to return to the verity of those doctrines that have been pronounced by that authority. I acknowledge that the doctrine of Mary’s perpetual virginity could possibly be correct, but I think it unlikely. Thus, I do not accept it on what I perceive to be its own merits, and also consider it a mark against the case for the teaching authority of the Catholic church.
Thus, I think Mr. Sanders is a bit unfair in his position, which seems to be that if this is the only doctrinal point keeping me from a brisk doggy-paddle across the Tiber I ought to reconsider my opposition, and if there are other points, why worry about this one? This would seem to apply to any of the sticking points, effectively cutting off discussion.
2. Having established the reasonableness of exploring whether this doctrine is merely possible or is instead likely, I’ll continue the discussion on the points Mr. Sanders found most interesting, namely, my view that denying a sexual component to the marriage of Mary and Joseph is a challenge to the Christian understanding of sex and marriage. Of course, the Catholic side can always play the “it was a special circumstance” card, but I think there can be dialogue over the implications of that, and whether they support the Catholic view.
To begin, I find some of his analogies flawed, “In the case of a marriage in which one partner falls perpetually ill, abstinence is demanded, and yet the marriage is not less true for it; in our vows we may explicitly state that we will love our spouses ‘in sickness and in health.’” Yes, but the marriage was not contracted with the intention that it be sexless and sterile. Catholic doctrine teaches that those incapable of sexual intercourse are not to be married. He also argues that, “A normal marriage is meant for two purposes: procreation and intimacy. These two purposes are mirrored in sexual relations, whose purposes are procreative and unitive. But in a sense theirs already was procreative, for a Son was born to Mary and was foster (or “step”) child to Joseph. That He came into the world through unusual means does not make theirs any less “procreative” a union. The Church has always taught that adoption (as per Saint Joseph) is a perfectly valid way for a marriage to ‘be fruitful.’” I find this slightly disingenuous, since the Church would not (or at least, should not) marry a couple who declared their intention to refrain absolutely from sex, but to adopt children.
The following is also odd, “Mary had acted for a time as the ark in which God dwelt literally and physically. She was the Ark of the New Covenant. Saint Joseph had surely been taught Scripture, being a devout Jew, and so he surely knew about the Ark of the Old Covenant. Just as surely, he knew that it was forbidden to touch the Ark.” Even if we accept the analogy of Mary to the Ark of the Covenant, there are some serious difficulties with this argument. The old Ark was a sacred box, the new Ark was a living woman. Furthermore, recall that when Christ died, Scripture records that the veil in the Temple that concealed the Ark was torn in two, symbolizing the access to God through Christ of the New Covenant. Thus, might we not consider the marriage (including sexual relations) of Mary as also symbolic of the New Covenant? Christ made it so that we can approach the Ark.
Also, he argues that, “Christ, however, is unique, and His temple is meant to be His alone; it would be neither proper, nor right, nor fitting for another to occupy that temple after his birth. It would not be proper for Our Lady to be focusing inward at the image of God kindled in her womb–caring for it, loving it as a mother does–when God himself stands before her, placed into her motherly care, in need of her motherly love.” But we are told in Scripture that we are bothers and sisters of Christ, might it not be fitting for Him to have had brothers and sisters during his earthly life? Christ is the high priest of his temple, but are we not worshipers in it through his blood?
I don’t see a convincing argument for why Mary had to remain a virgin her whole life, nor how such would not violate Christian principles of marriage.